Forgiveness Deserved, not Demanded
I admit to still being puzzled by the question why, when forgiveness is deserved, one can only request forgiveness and aren’t really in a position to demand it. I thought I’d ponder that question just a little bit more in this post. My hunch is that what’s wrong with demanding forgiveness, even when it’s morally deserved, has to do with what I’ll call the dialectical character of the relation between the forgiver and the to be forgiven.
